Whether with a professional or at an amateur level, it’s a fact that we can feel uneasy after a session. The hormonal drop experienced just after or the day after the encounter, the release of pent-up nerves that leaves us feeling more unstable, or even the guilt that lingers in our minds after engaging in practices that may not be as socially visible or initially accepted.
In this interview, we will discuss firsthand experiences with foot and armpit fetishism, but also the unease that can be felt for a variety of reasons, often left unspoken.
Are you experienced?
In terms of foot fetishism, I do feel somewhat more experienced, having explored it with some partners and through prior sessions with Caroline. However, I had not had any prior experience with armpit fetishism.
Do you remember any doubts you may have had before the first encounter? What do you wish someone had told you?
Before my first encounter with Caroline, I had doubts about the kind of person I would meet, uncertainty about attending a session where practices I had requested would take place, but I didn’t know exactly how they would unfold. It had me somewhat concerned, but once I entered the room with her, I realized I was in a safe space with a very kind and lovely woman who is there to ensure the experience is as satisfying as possible.
I also had some apprehension about dungeons and what the session location would be like. My first time in a dungeon was with Caroline, and I didn’t know if I would encounter others, etc. I would have felt more at ease knowing that these places tend to be very respectful of privacy, and you hardly see anyone (in my second session, the only person I saw was Caroline). If you do happen to see someone at the reception, it’s just for a brief moment, to guide you to your room (this was the case during the first session when there was someone at the reception, but after showing me my room, I didn’t see her again).
Other than that, everything went well, and I feel that Caroline is a professional and transparent person when dealing with you personally.
What kind of sessions have you had? How did the sessions go?
To date, I’ve had two sessions, one involving domination and another that had elements of domination alongside facilitation.
Regarding the first session, as I mentioned earlier, I was quite nervous due to the uncertainty of what to expect, but it turned out to be satisfying. Caroline reviews the form you fill out beforehand, and based on your preferences, a session is created where all our fantasies can come to life, always with consent from both parties and the understanding that if anything becomes too extreme, we can ask to tone it down.
As for my second session, it was much the same: I left feeling quite satisfied. For an hour, you feel comfortable, and, similar to my previous experience, every effort is made to fulfill the fantasies we’ve both agreed upon.
What does submission mean to you? And foot and armpit fetishism?
For me, submission and foot fetishism are closely linked. I associate submission with “being at the feet of,” and foot fetishism is something that has been present in my interests since I began exploring them. The act of relinquishing control to someone gives me a great deal of satisfaction, and if it includes the privilege of adoring the feet of the person to whom I’ve given control, even better.
Regarding armpit fetishism, I simply find it attractive, and the idea of being able to adore someone’s armpits appeals to me.
Is there anything you’d like to highlight or something that held special significance for you?
Regarding what I’d like to emphasize, a couple of things: First, in my opinion, Caroline has a remarkable ability to make you feel at ease and comfortable with her. You quickly sense that you’re in a pleasant environment, and her explanations of how the session will proceed and what to do if you’re uncomfortable provide the assurance that there’s nothing in the session that should be uncomfortable. You can always ask for a break or adjustments if needed.
The second point is a small, post-session experience that felt similar to “post-nut clarity” after my second session. Initially, after leaving the session, I felt quite satisfied, but upon arriving home and reflecting on everything, I experienced some discomfort. Over time, that feeling subsided, and now my memories of the second experience are quite positive.
I want to share this because, after a lot of analysis, I believe that this discomfort initially stemmed from the fact that I viewed my armpit fetish as somewhat “hidden” or something that, while not negative, I felt a bit embarrassed about exploring or discussing with a partner. Sharing it during this session made me initially uncomfortable, but after processing and normalizing the experience, I realized that it’s not something negative or shameful, and I consider it a valuable lesson I take from this experience. So, if it can be helpful to someone else, that’s great.