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Do you have fantasies about a strap-on being used on you? Can you imagine how another person puts on the harness and starts playing with your body? If you are looking for a meeting to explore these desires or if you simply want to know more about this practice, you have found the right place. My name is Caroline Caos F and I am a specialist in alternative erotics, being someone who enjoys it personally. I will provide you with information on the use of the harness and on steps to follow to session with me. Some ideas can be included both in our meeting and in those you share with other people.

What does strap-on consists of?

The strap-on is the actual object or sex toy: a harness or strap with one or more fixed or removable dildos. The main goal using a strap-on is to simulate the penis and be used as such.

Strap-on is very pleasant for those who seek anal, vaginal or oral penetration. It is not only used by people with a vagina, but also by people with a penis who want to penetrate in a different way or who seek to use it for physiological reasons. Among anal sex a strap-on provides great stimulation and unlike conventional dildos can be used hands-free owing to the strap-on harness. It generates intimacy, closeness and excitement of an erotic or sexual encounter with conventional penetration. There are vibrator-type options providing double stimulation, just as there are double-dildo harnesses for both sides.

The strap-on or harness is widely used in the Femdom context in which the person wearing the harness tends to take the dominant position, and the submissive is being penetrated. When it is the woman who penetrates the man we are talking about pegging.

If you are not convinced by any of the services I offer… Send me a proposal! I will be happy to assess it and carry it out if it fits with my wishes.

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What type of strap-on practices can you engage in?

Interested in different games you can play within an erotic-sexual strap-on or pegging session? Here’s three ideas that may awaken your fantasy. If you feel attracted by any of them, include it in the questionnaire.

1: Immobilization

Your hands are tied behind your back or your legs pinned open/x so you can’t defend yourself. Imagine your torso bent on a table and your hands tied at each end… These are just a few possibilities. Do they sound appealing to you?

2: Anal training

This practice does not only consist of a progressive dilation using the strap, but also provides a progressive training using different objects, plugs or vibrator type toys and games gradually widening the possibilities.

3: Role plays

Thrilled by being kidnapped where and pegged? Would you want your boss to force you into a sexual encounter where you must accept something like that? Maybe as a way to not publicly reveal private information?

I invite you to think about the proposed fantasies or to be encouraged to create your own.

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Q&A

Is a strap-on session safe?

The practice of the strap-on or harness, like the rest of erotic practices, involves a risk. In this particular case, it also depends on whether the receiving bottom person’s anal area is correctly dilated. Sometimes stimulated by video content, we want the size of the inserted dildo to be considerably large and the diameter of some toys does not seem to be fitting. It is understandable that in some sexual contexts we seek more extreme experiences, but we must avoid risks of tears and other minor injuries in the area. The important thing is not what you see, but what you feel.
To have a satisfying erotic-sexual encounter of this type, it is important to give it the time it requires. The use of vibrating type toys or a properly sized harness are a key to fulfillment.

What are the existing types of strap-on?

There are very different types of harnesses: with different straps, more similar to a vibrator, more realistic, and even with two dildos for simultaneous penetration. There is the basic toy made up of the harness and the adjustable strap. It can be made of different materials such as silicone, stainless steel or even glass. I recommend avoiding rubber, although quite common, due to their porosity, ability to pick up odors and cause allergic reactions.

When buying, it is important to look for one that has a resistant strap that does not cause friction during practice. Also think about if it will be a toy for use with one person or shared. Even if you put a condom on it, it is not recommended that it be made of a porous material. Finally, if you are looking for a vibrator, think about whether you need a waterproof toy for proper sanitation, for example. The length and width is entirely up to you!

What happens if I feel uncomfortable during the session?

Enjoying sessions is based on communication. My job is to create a safe and trusting space, so that you can stop the session at any time if you feel that you do not want to carry it on. Going through a long-expected erotic-sexual experience sometimes arouses many emotions and may overwhelm. Remember that we can always stop the session to talk, give a space before continuing or simply end it.

Where can I find communities or groups for people interested in the practice of strap-on?

The best way today to get in touch with other people interested in the practice of strap-on is through FetLife. In this largest kink social network in the world, you have the possibility to find both groups and users with the same interests as yours.